Kralovec Family Holiday in Greece

We are enjoying our time on the north coast of Greece. We are staying at the Ekies Resort in the village of Vourvourvou which is on the middle “finger” of the three peninsulas of the Halkidiki region. It is our first time to Greece and the Aegean Sea. It is absolutely beautiful and the kids are enjoying swimming all day. The hotel is situated in a protected bay so the water is calm and perfect for young children learning how to swim. A highlight for me was Owen and Oliver learning how to snorkel. I don’t understand how children can spend so much time in the water. Between the beach and pool, they were in the water from 11:00 AM to 6:00 PM today.

European Soccer Championship 2012

 

Germany versus Denmark, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

The boys and I are following the Euro 2012 soccer tourney from Poland/Ukraine. Every night for the past 10 days there have been games. I took this screen shot from the Radio Television Serbia broadcast, and it shows DAN (Denmark) and NEM (Nemačka – Germany in Serbian) in action.

Despite Serbia not qualifying, everyone is following the matches. I didn’t know who to support because Serbia is not there, so I chose the Czech Republic in honor of the Kralovec heritage. They surprisingly won their group and now have Portugal in the knockout round.

I love the passion of the fans but still feel it is too difficult to score in soccer. I also loathe seeing the players flopping on the pitch, trying to draw a foul or penalty. That is cheating and unmanly and should be harshly punished! I suggest a red card and they are forced to wear a pink tutu for the next game.

The boys and I are playing our own version of the tourney in the yard outside. It was cool the other night to have Owen help me take out the garbage. The kids are at a perfect age right now. They are old enough to have opinions and appreciate new experiences, but not old enough to be surly teenagers and refuse to do stuff. I am thoroughly enjoying spending time with them.

This is my last day of work in the office and then summer officially begins!!!!!

Latest Reading: “Island Practice” by Pam Belluck

I just finished reading this account of Dr. Tim Lepore (pronounced peppery), a general family medical doctor on the island of Nantucket. The book is a well-written journalism piece by Belluck, a New York Times reporter. Lepore is quite a character, that puts his patience first, and at 67, a stark example how the financial structure of healthcare is changing in the USA. I am from a small town in the isolated northern part of Michigan and can relate to Nantucket, a small island 30 miles off the coast of Massachusetts. It is a small town hospital struggling to stay alive in the face of rising costs. Many hospitals are facing the same challenges.

I was particularly interested in Dr. Lepore’s research into tick-born diseases. He is an expert because Nantucket has an overpopulation of deer and hence, one of the highest rates of tick-caused diseases like Lyme Disease. I learned that the baby ticks pick up bacteria or parasites from feeding on mice. As the ticks grow, they change to deer and come in contact with humans. The deer allow the ticks to have enough sustenance to produce baby ticks. There are deer on Nantucket because in the 1920’s, a boat saw a deer swimming off the coast and they rescued the buck and set it on the island. A few years later, two does were imported from Michigan and today, there are thousands of deer on the island. Dr. Lepore found that the white-footed mouse has blood flooded with parasites and the mice had lots of deer ticks feeding on them, but no dog ticks. The major diseases are Lyme, babesiosis, and anaplasmosis. Being from Upper Michigan, I have a special interest in ticks and my wife always freaks out when she finds them on the kids. We have found quite a few on us this spring and summer in Belgrade, but the diseases associated with them are rare here and there are no deer in Belgrade. Even on Nantucket, of the 2,500 hospital visits they get a year of suspected tick cases, only about 10 percent were actually diseases. The treatment is heavy antibiotics.

Another part of the story was the living conditions on the island. Nantucket is known for tourism and extremely rich summer residents. It has an extremely high cost of living and for the permanent residents, there is much poverty due to the seasonal employment nature of the economy combined with the high cost of living and the isolation from the mainland. There is a lot of alcohol and drug abuse and depression. Some of this is also caused by the great income disparities between the locals and the tourists/summer residents. I read with interest about rash of teen suicides at Nantucket High School and the struggles with chemical dependency the counselors and teachers face with the students. The scourge of alcohol and drugs reminds me of small towns in Northern Michigan. Much potential is wasted due to excessive drinking.

Dr. Lepore is very opinionated and insightful. One of the things I am struggling with is children spending too much time watching television and playing video games. Lepore says, “I have this thing about books – you read, you can create the world.” … “In a video game it makes the world for you. You’re a watcher, not a participant. Unplugging the computer is the only way we can get her (referring to his niece) off the internet.”

The book was a fast read. There are plenty of characters on the island that come to see Dr. Lepore and it keeps it interesting. There are lots of topics covered too, like abortion, gun collecting, marriage, raising kids, immigrant stories, etc.

I have a friend from Nantucket and I will email him and see what he thinks of the book. I’ll report back on this post if there is anything relevant.

 

 

He tested the white-footed mice and found their blood flooded with parasites, and it ws

Family Journal: June 16, 2012

 

Oliver, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Oliver, Ocean and I played a bit of basketball last night. Ocean was not feeling well yesterday, she picked up a virus from her nursery school and was vomiting all day. She finally perked up in the evening. Owen was on a sleepover, so Ollie and I hung out last night. I am reading “The Curse of the Titans” a book by Rick Riordon in the Percy Jackson series. Ollie is quite enjoying it.

It was a sad day as well yesterday as Owen said goodbye to his friend Devin. That is one bad thing about international schools is people in your life come and go quite quickly. This is the first really good friend Owen has had, so I was interested in his reaction. He was quite good about it, giving Devin a big hug before leaving his party. I really hope to keep in contact with Devin and his family. They will be in Slovakia next year which is not that far away.

Owen and Tudor Say Goodbye To Devin

Weather was in the 90’s yesterday and I am loving the summer! We are getting ready to host a BBQ today.

Summer Holiday Begins

 

Nadia and the boys had their final day of school on Thursday. Ocean had her last day yesterday and we are starting our summer holidays this week. I still have a couple of days of work, but the office is winding down.

Yesterday we went to a BBQ at our friend’s home in Obrenovac, a small city about 20 miles west of Belgrade on the Danube. It was a classic sunny summer day and we all enjoyed the pool, and this being Serbia, they also had a roast pig (below).

it was a nice way to end a hectic week! A big thank you to Hido and Zhana.

Family Journal: June 12, 2012

 

I have not been blogging much lately because I am so busy at work. There is too much to do at the end of the school year!

Above are the kids with water balloons. They went to a birthday party where the kids played a game of catch with water balloons, so it has been two days of me tying balloons for them.

This is the last week of classes, so only two more days of school left! Ocean got another set of class photos, below is her class.

I’ll be blogging more once the students leave school and we begin our summer holidays!

French Open Fever

 

We’ve been following Novak Đoković in the Roland Garros Tennis Championship this week. We were so inspired that we went down to his tennis center. Oliver is shown above on the red clay of Belgrade. It is also the home of the Belgrade Open, one of the stops on the ATP tour. I really want to get the kids into tennis this summer. It is a great sport.

It is something that Nadia and I can play together. It is so much better than golf in the fact that it is much quicker to play and it is more physical, although I do like the walking in “nature” aspect of golf.

I am excited for the second week of the French Open. Let’s hope Novak can pull it out, although Nadal and Ferrer look like the favorites right now.

Ocean Gets Into the Act

Latest Reading: “A Sense of an Ending” by Julian Barnes

I recently completed the 2012 Man Booker Prize Winning book, “The Sense of an Ending” by Julian Barnes. The Booker Prize is the Commonwealth’s most prestigious literary prize and former winners are Salman Rushdie, and books like The English Patient. 

The book really has two levels. The first is the story of a retired English gentleman who receives 500 British Pounds and a diary of an old friend, from the will of the mother of an ex-girlfriend. The plot revolves around the narrator finding out why and reflecting on what happened 40 years ago when he dated the girl. The other level is the author writing about old age and looking back on one’s life. There were some very good passages to think about. Julian Barnes is in his sixties and his wife passed away a couple of years ago, so his latest books have been about death.

I had a bit of a hard time figuring out what happened in the story, but the comments under the reviews of the book really helped. What did we do before the internet???? I highlighted some bits in my e-book version. I love electronic books for that. The iPad library and books are really easy to read and so easy to download. It makes hauling books around the world obsolete as well as my abandoned dream of having a huge library in my house. The only bad thing is you can’t lend books to friends.

Here were the “food for thought” from the book regarding getting older.

  • “This was another of our fears: that Life wouldn’t turn out to be like Literature.”
  • “They grow up so quickly, don’t they? when all you really mean is: time goes faster for me nowadays.
  • “he took off with someone who looked rather like her, but was that crucial ten years younger”
  • “history is not the lies of victors…it’s more the memories of the survivors, most of whom are neither victorious nor defeated.”
  • “Discovering, for example, that as the witnesses to your life diminish, there is less corroboration, and therefore less certainty, as to what you are or have been. Even if you have assiduously kept records-in words, sound, pictures – you may find that you have attended to the wrong kind of record-keeping.”
  • “But if nostalgia means the powerful recollection of strong emotions-and a regret that such feelings are no longer present in our lives – then I plead guilty. I’m nostalgic for my early time with Margaret, for Susie’s birth and first years…”
  • “We thought we were being mature when we were only being safe. We imagined we were being responsible but were only being cowardly…”
  • “when we are young and sensitive, we are also at our most hurtful; whereas when the blood begins to slow, when we feel less sharply, when we are more armoured and have learnt how to bear hurt, we tread more carefully”
  • “often in those long waking nights that age imposes.”
  • “and of the luck any parent has when a child is born with 4 limbs, a normal brain, and the emotional makeup that allows the child, to lead any sort of life. May you be ordinary, as the poet once wished the newborn baby.”
  • “You get towards the end of life- no, not life itself, but of something else: the end of any likelihood of change in that life.”

I guess that turning 45 last week has me thinking of getting to the stage of “old age.” I find that I am still in good health and feel young now. I am enjoying every year more and more and discover that as I get older, I get happier.

 

My Little Pioneer

My Little Pioneer, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Yesterday, May 25th, was a special day for me as it is my birthday and my adopted Slava. In Serbia, this date is the famous birthday of the ex Yugoslavian leader, Josip Broz, “Tito.” I’ve adopted him as my Slava patron. He was an athiest, as I am, so I guess it is appropriate to have him. I don’t agree with much of what Tito did and I don’t respect him as a hero, but it is a funny way to connect to Serbia and I love the idea of “the slava.” It is also funny that I have the same birthday as Sveti Tito.

For my birthday, I had Ocean wear the Pioneers of Yugoslavia uniform. This was a Communist propaganda movement that all children 7 and over participated. Ocean is wearing a “titovka” hat with the Yugoslav Communist Red Star and matching scarf.

My friend mentioned the pledge the kids took and it is underneath in English.

Today, as I become a Pioneer, I give my Pioneer’s word of honour -That I shall study and work diligently,respect parents and my seniors, and be a loyal and honest comrade and friend. That I shall love our homeland, self-managed socialist federal republic of Yugoslavia. That I shall spread brotherhood and unity and the principles for which comrade Tito fought.And that I shall value all peoples of the world who respect freedom and peace!

I had a great day with my family. We had a “brownie” birthday cake. Later on I attended our school’s prom, which was an elegant dinner at the Madera Restaurant downtown. It was a special day.

Srećan Rođendan and Happy Slava!

Too Cute To Lose

 


I was out sick from work on Tuesday, but despite feeling ill, I did have a nice day with my daughter Ocean. She doesn’t go to school on Tuesdays, so we hung out together, in between my sleeping. She loves board games and insisted on us playing Hangman. She knows a couple of words, like her name, and Bill, so I thought that is what she would have. I lost and when I asked her to reveal her word, you can see what she put up. I see that she understands the basic format of the game, but not the meaning. Hilarious! How could I get mad at losing with such an adorable little girl like this. We played chutes and ladders, candyland, sequence, creationary, trouble, hangman, and operation. I had a lot of fun! It would be wonderful to be a stay-at-home Dad.