The Daily Struggle

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Getting a 3 year old and a 5 year old to walk to school in the morning has been a challenge for Nadia and I. We are used to living on campus and so the idea of having to leave by 7:15 AM and walking the 15 minute walk to school is new to the boys. They have no sense of point A to point B and stop to look at every little thing. The natural curiosity about the world around them is great, but not when we have to get to school. 

Our nanny is great and she assists us with packing their lunches, etc., but with Nadia and I getting ready ourselves, it has been the biggest challenge for us in adjusting to life here.

It is a very nice walk however. The weather has been great so far. I can’t imagine what this will be like in the winter. The route is mostly park (see above) or streets meandering through the leafy suburb of Senjak. There are huge mansions, some look like the Addams Family house. It would be fun to have a lot of money to buy one and renovate them.

The boys have learned how to avoid cars and we are very vigilant to get them on the sidewalk. Serbs drive fast, not as fast as the Venezuelans, but very similar so that is a concern for us.

Things are starting to settle down at school and I am finding a bit more time to visit with the boys during the day. Yesterday I saw Owen playing with his friend Tudor, who is from Romania. His parents work for Kraft Serbia. Very nice family and Romanian is similar to Spanish.

 

Tudor and Owen Take a Break During Recess
Tudor and Owen Take a Break During Recess

 

Well, today is Friday and we are looking forward to the weekend.

Family Journal: Sunday August 31, 2008

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We had a nice relaxing weekend. After the ISB Welcome BBQ we headed down to Dorcol suburb of Belgrade. This is a trendy area of bars, cafes, restaurants, and really expensive cars. We went down to an Italian restaurant and had a nice pizza with some Serbian red wine.

Sunday morning Owen and I went for a bike ride. I then took the kids to “Ada” the sport island and my current favorite place in Belgrade. Everyone went for a swim, we ate popcorn, ice cream, and the famous Serbian “palacinkes” which are crepes. We had the nutella with biscquit and I thought of Andy when we had them. The last time we were in the Caribbean Mall in Puerto La Cruz, Venezuela and it was a flat crepe covered in a jar of nutella. This was the perfect crepe so I took a picture of Owen eating one. I have a food theme with Andy in this blog! It is sooo great to spend time with my children. Precious moments abounded this weekend. From watching Owen hoot with exhilaration as he is riding down a hill on his bike, to Ocean waking up, sitting in my lap with a bottle and caressing my arm as she drinks. Then to top it off, when she is done she turns around gives me the biggest hug and falls asleep in my arms. What an angel! Ollie was his positive crazy self and he drank eagerly from my wine glass. He talks with everyone and is always in a good mood. I am a lucky man.

 

Ollie Enjoys a Hot Dog at Ada Ciganlija
Ollie Enjoys a Hot Dog at Ada Ciganlija

 

 

Nadia survived her first week in the PYP. Despite her freaking out, she is doing great and will have an excellent year of teaching. She went to school this morning for a couple of hours of work.

We finished up the weekend by going over to my friend Tim’s house for pizza. He has two daughters that take care of Ocean and the boys, so it is so nice to go over and socialize with them.

Well, it is to bed and a fresh week ahead of us.

School Starts at ISB

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I have not been blogging much lately because our voltage reducer blew a fuse and I can’t recharge my camera batteries. It was also a busy and draining first week of classes. We decided to throw out the 10-day cycle, 7 period day a few days before classes began because it was unworkable. We switched to a 4-day cycle, 4-period day which incredibly worked out well. It makes for a less hectic day and the students have more electives.

It was an exhausting start of the year for Nadia and I because everything is brand new. It was also challenging for the boys to get up and walk to school with us. Yesterday the school held the welcome back BBQ which was a really nice day and today we finally have a chance to catch our breath.

Last week during the orientation, we took the all-staff photo in the garden of the high school. Nadia and I are together in the second row from the top, near the center on the right side. The secondary staff has 32 teachers and administrators that I am responsible for. The staff has been very helpful and supportive to me. There are a lot of good teachers here.

The students are more diverse and worldly from the students in my previous schools. There are 57 nationalities in the student body and they are from affluent and educated families and it reflects in their achievement.

I plan on blogging more often after I get my tech set up at home.

Owen likes his classmates although he is a little bored to be in kindergarten again. Oliver fell off the monkey bars the first day and kept running over the Mom’s classroom, but is now fully participating and enjoying his class. It was tough on Nadia to leave Ocean and I hope we can get a good balance with that.

Olympic Wrap Up for Serbia

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Phelps and Cavic in a photo finish
Cavic (left) and Phelps (right) in a photo finish

Serbia’s brightest moment came in the 100 meter butterfly event. Milorad Cavic (pronounced Chavich) in Serb is shown above nearing the wall in the finals. He was beaten by Michael Phelps by .01 second. It looked like he reached first but was gliding as he neared the wall while Phelps was coming forward with his arm. In my opinion, it was just a lucky break for Phelps and the race could have gone to either swimmer. It was the closest scare, besides the relay event that Phelps had in reaching his goal of 8 gold medals. It is also funny that Cavic has a name very similar to Nadia’s maiden name! Milorad set the Olympic record in a previous heat that still stands in the event. He received a hero’s welcome here in Belgrade with thousands coming to a rally in his honor upon arrival from China. 

It was a bit sad to see Novak Djokovich lose to Rafael Nadal in the semifinals. He did come back and win the bronze medal in the consolation match against Blake. He was the second best tennis player in the games and deserved a silver medal, but was seeded in Nadal’s bracket. We watched his exciting quarterfinal match against Frenchman Monfils in the shopping mall here in Belgrade. Everyone went crazy when he won. I could tell that Novak wanted to win the medal very badly. 

The third and last medal was won by the men’s water polo team. Serbia defeated neighbor and best friend Montenegro to win the bronze medal. Last Olympics, those two countries were together and I wonder how they would have done competing together. Serbia’s three medals were its first medals as an solo independent nation. With only 6.5 million people, three medals is pretty good. That is a ratio of just over 2 million people per medal. Compare that to the USA’s 2.7 million people per medal and it is slightly better. I wonder how the former Yugoslavia would have done together in this olympics? I also enjoyed listening to the Serbian Olympic Theme, Srbija Navija! or Serbia Cheers! Thanks Sanja I. for sending it to me. 

I really enjoyed watching them but am glad they are over as it dragged on a bit with so many obscure and unwatchable sports. I think the Olympics could get rid of many sports like synchronized swimming and diving, equestrian, shooting, table tennis, judo, etc.


Family Journal: Monday August 25, 2008

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I have had no time to blog this week. We worked extremely hard at revamping the secondary schedule and have put in 14 hour days consistently. The first day of school is today so the boys and Nadia are quite excited. I’ll blog more this week when things settle down.

Family Journal: August 17, 2008

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Owen & Ocean, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Not much time to write as teacher orientation has begun! School starts next Monday and it is full on work all week to get everything ready.

Sunday morning I took time out to run with Ocean and Owen on his bike. We rode down to the river and then took the bike elevator up on the bridge and crossed the Sava River. The kids are shown above with Old Belgrade shore in the background. 

Saturday we hosted our first BBQ in our back yard. It was a success and everyone had a good time. 

 

Tim and Owen Survive!
Tim and Owen Survive!

Sunday afternoon was spent at school fixing up my office. We moved in on Friday evening to the new school. Nadia is working in her classroom and I have to work on the schedule.

St. Sava’s Church

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I took a photo Friday evening inside the giant St. Sava’s Church here in Belgrade. The church’s massive dome is 70 meters high and 10,000 people can attend mass. It can be seen from all over city. It is the third largest Orthodox church in the world and the largest neo-Byzantine building constructed in the 20th century. The Byzantine architecture style features a large, central, dome and thin windows to let in light. The inside is truly awe inspiring!

We walked down to the church from the main shopping area. I was surprised to see so many children and families near the church. It sits on a small hill surrounded by a park. There were roller bladers, kids playing tennis on the outside walls of the church, and teenagers riding mopeds up and down the side walks. No holy reverence here which is refreshing to experience. The church was open and a few people were taking photographs and looking around. Oliver and I went inside and were blown away.

As you can see in the photo, work is still being done on the church. Construction did not begin until 1935 and has been interrupted by the numerous wars Serbia has experienced. This is the first Orthodox Church I have been in and I was impressed by the mosaics on the walls, which are another feature of the Byzantine style. The Orthodox Church in Serbia is not under the direction of Greece and is independent and has its own pope (Patriarch) and hence the Serbian flag prominently displayed on the front entrance.

St. Savas Church At Night
St. Sava's Church At Night

The grave of Serbian Saint Lazar is in the basement of the church. He is the Serbian Jesus. He was a Serbian noble who died at the famous Battle of Kosovo in 1389. According to legend, he was visited the night before the battle by the Prophet Elijah in the form of a gray falcon. Elijah offered Lazar an Earthly Kingdom or a Heavenly Kingdom. Lazar takes the Heavenly Kingdom, but to earn it, he has to die on the battlefield. He was canonized by the Serbian Orthodox Church and his feast day is the most holiest of all days in the Serbian calendar, June 28.

The church is named after the son of the founder of the Serbian medieval empire. Sava was originally Prince Rastko Nemanjić and he lived in the late 1100’s – early 1200’s. He was the founder of the Serbian Church. The location of the church was put here because Sava’s remains were believed to be burned here in the 1500’s by the Ottoman Turk leader Sinan Pasha.

I really felt I was at the heart of Serbdom! With the church being in the center of Belgrade, the capital of Serbia and with the remains of two of the founders of the Serbian nation and church here, you can’t get more Serbian than this. With the breakup of Yugoslavia over and a new era for Serbia, hopefully they can complete the church. The church represents the long history of the Serbs and the bright future ahead for the country.

Beating the Heat – Family Journal August 17, 2008

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Temperatures have been in the 90’s all week. We bought a small pool for the kids to play with and it is a big hit. Shown above is Ocean in her Dora The Explorer bathing suit. She loves the water.

At work the construction company moved out on Wednesday and late Friday I finally got into my office. The AC was not working so the days have been quite stifling. We completed the orientation packets for the new teachers. There is still much to do with the schedule, lockers, etc. still needing some attention. I received my school cell phone which will help greatly.

Vera our nanny is going to work out great! She is hard-working and wonderful with the kids. Ollie and Ocean particularly like her! She went with Nadia and the kids to the beach on Friday. Friday evening we went walking down town and ate at the nicest McDonald’s I have ever seen. We then walked down to the big cathedral in the city which I’ll do a blog post later.

Oliver On the Kneza Mihaila

On Saturday I ran with Ocean to the post office to pick up Nadia’s back pack that my parents sent and some lollies from Australia that Alejandra sent. We then had my colleague, Tim and his family over for a BBQ. He is the elementary principal and has two daughters that played and looked after the kids. Nadia and I actually had a chance to talk and enjoy ourselves. Tim’s wife Janna will be working with Nadia this year and he also had two friends from Montana/Seattle visiting. It was a nice afternoon.

We are still watching the Olympics and I discuss that more a bit later.

Today I will be going into school for a awhile to do some work and then the rest of the day will be spent with the family.

Family Journal: Tuesday August 12, 2008

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Vera Serving Breakfast, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Nadia is working with Vera this week to see how she might be as our nanny for this year. Vera is from Belgrade and lives close to our house. She is 51 years old and so far is quite nice, hard-working, and most importantly, the kids like her. She is shown above serving breakfast to our charges. This is very important as Nadia begins work next Monday and we need someone we can trust to be at home with Ocean. We are using Skype to communicate with us at school and we’ll have a computer at home and both Nadia and I have lap tops at school so we will be in contact frequently.

I had a busy day at work yesterday as I am preparing for teacher and student orientation and working through the schedule. Nadia has been a champion being home with the kids all day. Owen loves his new spy watch, it has a special spy night light, message decoder, secret message capsule and shows the time around the world. Oliver got a new spiderman and he carries it around with him everywhere. Ocean is an eating machine and the best out of the three.

Serbia Olympic Update

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We are crazy for the Olympics here in the Kralovec family. Yesterday’s 4 x 100m relay swimming race had us on the edge of our seats. We hope Phelps reaches his quest for 8 golds. We also enjoyed the dunkfest of the USA Redeem Team against China in basketball. They will have tougher competition upcoming. 

Serbia’s quest for their first medal as an independent nation has had it’s ups and downs. Their best hope is in tennis, but it suffered a set back yesterday when nagging injuries kept Ana Ivanovic out of the draw. The three other Serbs, Novak Djokovic, Janko Tipsarevic, and Jelena Jankovic all won their first round matches and now are into the round of 32. Janko upset seeded David Ferrer of Spain. Novak has Raphael Nadal on his half of the draw, while Janko has Roger Federer on his side. Both should move on to the round of 16. Jelena is the number two seed, but has Venus Williams and Marat Safin’s sister on her half of the draw. 

Ana drops out of the women's singles tennis draw.

In water polo, the Serbian men defeated Germany in the first round and are scheduled to face arch rival Croatia today. The Serbian men’s soccer team looked outclassed against the Ivory Coast on Sunday in a 1-3 defeat. Their final group match against Argentina is a must win situation. Argentina has already qualified to the quarterfinals and might play with substitutes. The Serb men have one point from a first round draw with Australia. They need a decisive win against Argentina tomorrow and an Ivory Coast close loss. 

The Serbian Women’s Volleyball team has two wins against two lesser opponents and plays powerhouse Brazil tomorrow which will be a good test. The men’s volleyball team is trying to bounce back against Brazil today after a narrow defeat to Russia in round one.