Family Weekend Journal May 10-11, 2008

Nadia & Ocean, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Friday evening and Saturday were devoted to softball. See previous post. Sunday, Mothers’ Day, we spent at home. In the morning we took Nadia to Mangos for breakfast. The breakfast was not that great, and Owen spilled his watermelon juice, and Oliver was insoportable. But we were together and that is what counts. Afterwards we went for a drive around the city and just north of it. All three kids fell asleep and we could relax for awhile. Quite nice and that was my Mothers Day gift. Nadia and Ale took the kids to a movie in the afternoon while I spent the day with Ocean. She is so adorable! I made her peaches and rice and fed her and took her out for a walk. In the evening, I pushed the boys on the swings while Nadia ran and then she took the kids in and I ran. Very nice to have the camp to ourselves.

Nadia is pictured with our daughter Ocean. They are behind our house on the campus of Escuela Anaco. Ocean has a mana in her hair.

Happy Mothers Day Nadia!

Farewell to the EVAC

Mr. Kralovec, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Yesterday was my final tournament in the Eastern Venezuelan Athletic Conference. The EVAC consists of five schools here in the eastern oilfields of Venezuela. Besides our school, they are Colegio Internacional de Puerto La Cruz, two QSI schools, one in El Tigre and the other in Lecheria. The other is the International School of Monagas in Maturin. Since my arrival to the school in January of 2002, several times a year I attended the events, which ranged from roller hockey to debate, soccer to knowledge bowl and many others. I usually was coaching or assisting the Guacamayas in most of them.

One of the reasons I went into education is the opportunity to coach. My mother was a long time basketball and softball coach and my father was quite an athlete when he was young, so I grew up in a sports crazy house. I feel very strongly that one of the best characteristics about American schools is their strong commitment to extra-curricular activities. Young people need as many activities as possible in this era of passive entertainment. To have the students learn the fundamental of sports, develop healthy exercise habits, learn to deal with competition, and develop friendships with teammates and opponents, is so much better than sitting at home playing video games

Yesterday was s sweet ending to my EVAC career. Our elementary softball team won first place and dominated the softball competition. They scored 52 runs and only allowed 6 runs. I am shown above pitching to our team, as the coaches do the pitching to speed up the game. The students and myself really enjoyed ourselves yesterday! It was the most excited I have seen the students all year! It just confirms my beliefs above. I hope to continue being involved in sports and other activities in my new school and conference.

I would like to thank everyone who I worked with in the EVAC. I would especially like to mention Chris Irvin, the CIPLC Athletic Director and founder of the EVAC. Through his energy and sportmanship, he has made the EVAC very successful and given our small school, the opportunity to compete with other international schools. It really enhanced our school and the program we offer. I would also like to thank some of the other coaches I worked with through the years, like Ken Hall, Aaron Harnden, Rick Hoogenboom, Mark Richert, Joe Fenbert, Diego Wells, George Gostovich, Heather Villaparedes, Dave Becvar, and many others. Shown below was the most recent EVAC Planning meeting that took place earlier this month at QSI-PLC. Shown around the table are Mike Martell, Henny Sands, Nick Wasuck, Heather Villaparedes, Aaron Harnden, and Chris Irvin.

EVAC Planning May 2007

Mothers Day At Escuela Anaco

Owen made a card for Nadia. It was a portrait that Nadia thought was very funny as well as the line in the sentences to the right, “My mom used to do long jump.” Owen also appeared in a video and had a cute message for Mom. Oliver’s day care made flowers with his picture on.

After the presentation, Owen and Mom had a nice breakfast of Mango’s pastelitos and yogurt. Mom thought it was a nice morning.

Ale & Sebey

Moving Day

Moving Van, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Yesterday personnel from Mudanzas Internacionales Global CA came by our home and packed our personal possessions we are shipping to Belgrade. In reading the fine print, we saw that we had 3 cubic meters and after several calculations, found out that is 1.4 m x 1.4 m x 1.4 m. Which is not a lot. We decided to stay close to the limit and we left behind our Christmas tree. Everything else went on and the house is a bit barren now. We are living on the bare essentials until we depart Venezuela on June 10th. We were scrambling most of the morning with the requirements of photocopies of passports, detailed inventories with monetary value, and coordinating with Gordana and Aleksandar in Serbia. The boxes will now go to Caracas where they will be measured and weighed. ISB kindly offered to pick up and store our possessions when they arrive in late May / early June. Pictured above is the moving van outside of our home.

Family Weekend Journal May 1-4, 2008

Wrestling, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

Owen and Sebey are shown above wrestling at the beach. We went up to Puerto La Cruz for the afternoon and played on the beach near the Punta Palma Hotel. It was a great day with me and the boys! Fortunately, it was overcast which allowed the fair-skinned boys to spend a lot of time outside. We also walked around the marina and they enjoyed climbing across the docks to the breakwater. We identified jelly fish, feather duster worms, coral, and crabs.

We had a long weekend due to Labor Day falling on a Thursday. Wednesday night we had Oliver’s birthday party. We spent much time this weekend packing up our personal belongings for shipping to Serbia. We are not clutter people, but it is amazing the amount of stuff one collects over a few years. Phillip Katzmann, my replacement, came in on Thursday afternoon so we went and picked him up. Friday morning was spent briefing him. There was more packing on Friday evening and all day Saturday. It was extremely hot Saturday, and so we had a the swimming pool filled and we spent time in the back yard. Owen and Sebey are taking swimming lessons and I see their improvement already. Oliver is being potty trained right now and he had a successful weekend with a few slip ups. Ocean is getting more cognizant of her surroundings. She is fascinated with colors, textures, shapes. She will spend 15 minutes, exploring any object you give her.

We are heading into our final month in Anaco. It will be a busy end of the school year.

Oliver In Pool

Dangerous Book for Boys

Dangerous Book for Boys, originally uploaded by bill kralovec.

I listened to the interview with author Gonn Iggulden about his book, “The Dangerous Book for Boys.” I bought this book last year and have enjoyed doing some of the activities with my sons Owen and Oliver. I highly recommend it.

The book is a response to the movement in education and society towards safety. Parents are overly protective of children. They have taken out most risk in the lives of children and this has especially hurt the healthy development of boys. Education has also moved in the last 30 years in this philosophy also. Teachers are very cautious when planning activities and field trips because fear of a student being injured and possible litigation. Increased media coverage has also given parents and exaggerated fear of all the possible dangers that can befall children outdoors.

“Better a broken arm, than a broken spirit.” Interviewer Glenn Reynolds (instapundit.com)quotes from the response of early 1900’s educators against the notion that playgrounds are unsafe. This book is riding the pendulum swing in our society and education that the movement towards providing a totally safe, protected environment has hurt our children and having a bit of risk in their lives is good for them. I can’t agree more. I see many over protective parents, especially mothers, coddling their children to the point for hindering their development. My brother and I both have sons, and we often talk about how we don’t want our boys to grow up to the soft, pale, video game playing boys. We see it in the students that we work with. I learned from the interview that the original boy scout manual was written because the author believed that Americans were turning soft like the Roman empire. He was right on, and the trend did not stop, although scouting is a fantastic program. I am constantly fighting against “passive entertainment” of television and video games. It is so much more pervasive than when I was growing up. Getting the boys outside and doing stuff is a challenge these days!

The Iggulden brothers both are former teachers and feel the same way I do. They have done all the projects in the book and anything they couldn’t do, they left out. The book was a best seller in the UK where they are from and the American version is a hit too. They had to change the book slightly for the USA, getting rid of cultural references and history that don’t apply to us.

As a school administrator, I am on the front lines of helping this generation of boys to develop into functioning and healthy men. I know that over protective mothers mean well and they think what they are doing is best. But there is a balance between negligence and living in the plastic bubble. I believe our education system and society swung too far in the direction of plastic bubble. For example, a few years ago I had a day care mother suggest the children take their own sand to school for the playground so they would catch bacteria from the other children playing in the sand box. This is unhealthy and we need to give young people more responsibility and more “active entertainment” time. I am trying to do this with my sons and will try to promote this with the students and parents I work with. For more information you can go to the authors’ web site (www.dangerousbookforboys.com) and you can also listen to the interview from April of 2007 below.

http://politicscentral.com/2007/05/16/the_glenn_and_helen_show_conn.php

Oliver’s Third Birthday Party

Wednesday afternoon we celebrated my son Oliver’s third birthday party. Birthday parties in Latin America are a big deal and we went all out to give the little guy a nice day. His first two parties were small affairs, so we wanted to do something special for him. I also think that this birthday was special because Oliver was born in Anaco and this will be his last birthday he celebrates here.

Oliver’s favorite color is green and he loves to dance so we made the theme “Green Music Party.” Nadia spent a lot of time and money in planning the party. She made cute CD invitations, made green t-shirts, made a playlist of children’s music, etc. We invited 15 children and held it in front of Alejandra’s house at the school. There is a perfect cement dance floor underneath a Merey (Cashew) tree for the kids to dance on. We played musical games like limbo (see video above), hot monkey, musical chairs, etc. Everyone had a good time, especially Oliver. Ollie is currently in the stage of hitting other children and he did throw of few tantrums, but other than that, things went smoothly. He really enjoyed blowing out the candles on his cake.

Happy Birthday Oliver – You have brought much joy to our lives.

Weekend Family Journal April 26-27 2008

I had a bit of difficulty figuring out how to embed this video from flickr.com. I can now upload videos of up to 90 seconds to my flickr.com account. I uploaded several videos and will try to find time to upload some videos from earlier in the year. Some of my videos are over 90 seconds however, so I will make a Youtube account and put them there. The above video shows Nadia feeding Ocean. Nadia makes all of Ocean’s baby food from scratch. She takes much of her philosophy of feeding babies from the book, “Super Baby Food” by Ruth Yaron. Ocean is now 7 months old and is just so darn cute and cuddly. She has rolls of delicious baby fat every where! Nadia is also enjoying having a girl.

This past weekend we stayed in Anaco and relaxed on campus. On both Saturday and Sunday morning I got a chance to run, first with Oliver and then Ocean with my jogging stroller. I am making it a point to exercise more. Saturday morning Nadia and I made pancakes for the boys. In the afternoon, Andy, Owen, Oliver, and I went out to the mesa for a hike. We got a bit lost in the canyons, but made it back. The entire hike took about an hour which is pretty good with young children. I carried Oliver much of the way, although the little guy loved the whole experience. Owen got a bit whiny, but pulled through and sprinted the last 20 meters back to the car. Going out to that area really re-charges my batteries, and as I always say, a day with more time spent outdoors than indoors is a good day. Later on we swam in the backyard pool and I did some yard work.

Sunday morning after the jog, Andy and I took the boys shopping to Unicasa. I am amazed at how prices are rising here. Nadia and Ale worked on their Arabic, Spanish, and Serbian jolly phonics. The women are adapting the Jolly Phonics program to other languages. Nadia’s Serbian version has really helped us pick up the Cyrillic quickly. We did more party planning, as we are gearing up for Oliver’s third birthday party tomorrow.

One comment on the iPod and podcasts. They are brilliant! I can now listen to my favorite programs any time, any where. It makes jogging go by so quickly. I’ll do a post in the future with my podcast recommendations.

Learning Serbian Cyrillic

Nadia, Owen, and I are going through the “Teach Yourself Serbian” language course by Vladislava Ribnikar and David Norris. We are first concentrating on the alphabet – letter recognition and sounds. Nadia is putting into play her experience as a kindergarten teacher. That is what she does, teach children a new language, English in our school. She loves the Jolly Phonics program, which is a British phonics system of learning the 40 basic sounds of the English language. Nadia made a “Serbian Jolly Phonics” packet for Owen and I. We have flash cards, posters, and put the lessons on our iPods to try to absorb the language. The opportunity to learn new languages is one of the nicest things in living abroad. I learned Spanish in my long time in working in Latin America. Our family speaks “Spanglish” a mix of Spanish and English in the home. Spanish has given me a better understanding of the grammar of English and a different way of looking at the world.

Serbian offers many challenges, the first being two alphabets. Serbia has always been at the crossroads of East and West and this is reflected with the two alphabets. Belgrade and the south of the country belonged to the Istanbul-looking Ottoman Empire for centuries, while Novi Sad and the north was controlled by the Vienna-looking Austrian Hungarian Empire. Serbian’s original alphabet is Cyrillic. This letter system is over 1000 years old and was adapted by Bulgarian priests from the Greek alphabet. Some of the Greek symbols remain or remnants of them. Cyrillic is named after St. Cyril, a Greek Byzantine Missionary who brought Christianity to the Slavic people in the 800’s. Below is a picture of Cyril and his brother Methodius, holding up the Cyrillic script. The script is strongly associated with the Orthodox or Byzantine Christian Church, as the Bulgarian priests who developed it, did so in order to put the Bible and church documents into a language for the Slavs. It is telling that the Croats, who went with the Roman Catholic Church instead of an Eastern Orthodox Church, now only use a Latin alphabet.

Today, variations of Cyrillic is used by over 50 languages, including the Slavic countries of Russia, Bulgaria, Serbia, Belarus, Ukraine, and Macedonia. I finally now understand what the CCCP meant on the uniforms of the Soviet athletes in the Olympics of the 1970’s and 80’s. In Cyrillic, the “C” represents the “s” sound and the “P” represents the “r” sound.

Saints Cyril & Methodius

Below are some notes to try to help me learn all 30 of the Cyrillic letters. I discovered on my Mac, I can switch among English, Serbian Latin, and Serbian Cyrillic on my key board. Now I now what the US flag in the upper right hand corner is for. Here is my breakdown of the 30 Cyrillic letters and sounds:

Easy Ones – Six have the same shape and sound as in English. To spell the word for strong it would be MET.

А Е К М 0 Т

False Friends- Six look like our English letters, but have a different sound than in English.

Х «throat clearing h»
Н «N»
Р «Rrrr»
С «s»
У «oo»
Ј «y»

В “v”

The remainder are odd with no resemblance to English letters.

The pi symbols – Four look like the Greek letter pi (I am also a former mathematics teacher.)

П This one is «p» sound which makes it easy to remember because p for pi.
Л The pi symbol with a little twist, represents the «L» sound.
Љ Add a loop that looks like a b to make the «ll» sound of «million»
Њ An «H» and a «b» together make the «n» sound in Spanish like Nandu

The three “C’s” – Some of the letters in the Latin Serbian have accent marks. There are three Latinized “C” letters. The Cyrillic equivalent is first and the Latin is second. Frankly, at this point, I don’t hear any difference among the three.

Ц C pronounced like the «ts» in cats
Ћ Ć prounounced like the «t» of tube, but with tongue slightly back.
Ч Č easiest of the three, the «ch» of child

My surname of Kralovec is from the Bohemian region of the Czech Republic. The final c is probably one of the three above. I see that many Serbian surnames have the second Ć. I will be using this one to spell my name.

The Three “D’s” – Two of the letters in the Serbian Latin are a take of the letter D.

Ђ Đ The Cyrillic looks too similar to the Ć but the part of the h is curved in at the bottom of the figure. It is pronounced like the «d» in dew but with tongue right behind front teeth
Џ Dz Pronounced like the «j» in judge. The sign looks like football goal posts, like the NY Jets

The actual “D” sound is represented by this Д symbol that looks like a door making it easy to remember for me.

The Rest –

Б This is «B» and it is pretty close to our B.

Г It looks like a small «r» but it is the «g» sound as in goat.

Ф This is phi from the Greek alphabet and its sound is «f»
Ж This is the strangest sign, the double K matches the «s» is pleasure
И The backwards N has the sound «ee» or the Spanish i
Ш The Roman numeral three has the sound of «sh» in shoe

Z My Serbian Cyrillic Mac keyboard will not give me the 3 that represents the sound “z

My favorite Cyrillic letter is Ж. It sounds Slavic and looks exotic.

I will be chronicling my growth in the language. It will probably be boring to read but it helps me reflect on my learning.

Хвала!

School Photo Day

Owen

Yesterday we took photographs of all of the students and teachers at Escuela Anaco. Oliver’s Day Care Center photo is above and Owen’s Kindergarten photo is below. They are growing up so fast. All of our family photos from the day are in my flickr. com set.